9 a.m. to Dark

It was a beautiful day for walking.  We nosed our car up to the rusted gate and off of the main highway.  The doors to the old Toyota popped open and everyone bounced out of the car, ready to begin the hike.  We had to duck under the rusted metal poles and walk past the sign with the posted park hours. (9 a.m. to dark, after that get out!)  Of course it didn’t say “get out” and I doubt the person who left the bullet hole in the sign believed it either.  But the attendant who rented our nearby cabin assured us this park was open, as long as you were willing to take the long walk in.

Once we followed the path around its bend, the only sounds we could hear was the wind sighing in the trees and the occasional bird call.  The kids called out to each other as they explored along the edges and chased after our dog.  Zoey was very excited to be back on this land and to be off leash, the way nature intended.  So quiet in the park, and so alone. Not lonely with the whole family present; the solitude was very peaceful.

This year, instead of going to the kids fishing pond we continued on to what in summertime would be considered a beach/play/picnic area.  It was obvious that much maintenance would be needed before those rusty gates could screech open and allow the beach-goers to drive carelessly up the road and swarm the beach.  But for now, it was all ours except for the small boats across the sound; the occupants quiet as their minds drifted along with their boats.

Parts of the sand on the beach were littered with small rocks and nature’s detritus.  My wife began to wander off as she scanned the stones and driftwood for particular triangular shaped items.  Since we started this part of our journey so late in the day, we didn’t have much time to explore; it wouldn’t be long until darkness crept across the water.  We did not want to find our way back to the safety of the car in utter darkness. Our oldest daughter strolled away across the sand, marking her trail with a hiking stick dragged behind her.  She too was caught up in the quiet as she wandered away.

The youngest daughter stayed with me as she didn’t want to traverse the piles of nature’s detritus that her mother was passing through.  As I crunched over the pebbles doing my own walk-about, I was suddenly taken with a need to turn around and examine more closely the stones I had just passed.  A few minutes of squatting and searching and I found it; a nicely shaped arrowhead, made of black obsidian and showing all the imperfections you would expect from a stone-age artifact.  When I looked up, my daughter was staring at me; I’m pretty sure she’s never seen that look on my face before and she wasn’t sure what to make of it.  We splashed through the water and crashed through the brush as we hurried over to show my wife, who was conducting her own search. In vain as it turned out.

She was very excited to see it, and although she wanted to find one on her own that didn’t diminish her excitement.  While I was lagging behind with our dog, the rest of the family met a man walking his two dogs off leash.  He talked of finding an tomahawk axe as well as arrowheads.  I didn’t get a chance to talk as he had not brought leashes as I had, and didn’t want to separate any dog fights!  He walked back ahead of us and was gone by the time we got to the car.

The walk back to the car seemed to take much less time, what a nice end to the day!

Deceiving

Although the room doesn’t look substantially changed, I have made some updates.

I had to have some help when I opened this up.  But my objective was to add a light over the tub; I had to do some wiring, drilling and cutting as well as climbing into the dusty attic.  This is what I had when I finished.

And it works!

Next up was the toilet.  More specifically, there was no way I could change out the floors and still leave the same flange. I talked to my friend Matt; my best bet was to cut the pipe in the garage below and add pipe which would extend above the floor level.  I can then cut it to the correct height when my floor is installed.

You can also see in the above picture the added layer of plywood.

I took out that new piece near the door and replaced it with plywood running in the same direction for added strength.

I also replaced the insulation; obviously I need more practice at this.

Although to be fair, the walls on the left have a ton of obstacles!

Next up, I will be installing the CBU, although we do not yet have the tile picked out. Alex wants some sort of blue tile, we will see…

(No) Progress

The bathroom has been stripped.

Stripped

Stripped

And some of the soft spots patched.

Patched

Patched

Now I need to figure out how to bring home all the backerboard and drywall.  I think everything else I need will fit into the car.

Not like this!

Not like this!

And then there is the lip problem. No, not the areas that the razor just doesn’t reach.

I’ve read many forums on this and not a few instruction PDFs from tub makers and cement board makers.

Some say to leave 1/4 inch between the top of the lip and the bottom of the CBU.

Some say to use furring strips on the studs so that the CBU can be brought to within 1/8 inch of the top of the tub, thereby covering the lip.  The furring strips will make the protruding lip even with the studs so the CBU won’t bow when it goes from tub lip to stud.

All say to use a vapor barrier, but some say 15# felt, some say plastic (anywhere from 3mm to 6mm). Some say to bring that barrier over the lip, and trim it before caulking. And use caulk to help stick it to the tub lip.

Why is there no consensus?

And then there is RedGard and Ditra. What the heck are they?

Unplanned Bathroom Renovations

Two weeks ago I was with my daughter in the first floor of our house, when we heard a loud thump from our upstairs bathroom.  Followed the thump there was a short pause, then “Daddddyyyy!”  My other daughter had been reaching in the tub when the soap holder she had been leaning on gave way.  And took some tile with it.

I nudged a few of the surrounding tile; they came off as easily as a dress after the prom.  Knowing what mold spores can do, I sent the girls out of the immediate vicinity.  Well, that and they were both grabbing my arms and yelling at me to stop doing that!  The youngest was crying; she just doesn’t like letting go of anything!

Here’s what it looked like after I quit prodding.  Yuck!

Was that really behind there?

Was that really behind there?

So we headed out to find someone who might know what the next step should be.  In this case, it turned out to be a man at Lowes.  He said the best step would be to just rip out all the drywall rather then peeling the tile off.  That way we could avoid spreading the spores everywhere. He also said that lumber from 15 years or more ago had anti-mold properties that today’s lumber doesn’t have. He said that in 1985 the government no longer mandated the use of chemicals to prevent mold. To my relief, he was more or less right – at least above the tub.

I did that, and decided to go ahead and replace the insulation behind the drywall I removed as well.

The new insulation comes wrapped in some sort of plastic.

The new insulation comes wrapped in some sort of plastic.

I also added some Great Stuff to the gaps where I could see daylight.

See that yellow foam-looking stuff?

See that yellow foam-looking stuff?

I’m lucky enough to have a friend who worked in construction for 10-15 years, and he was a perfectionist. He says you should do it right or not bother. So I had a video call with him via Skype. (Why doesn’t everyone use Skype? I don’t get it…) He said I might as well take out all the tile on the floor. And look under the tub. And… He makes me think this might be an opportunity rather then tragedy.

I think this tub needs replacing!

I think this tub needs replacing!

Smish-smash I was taking a bath!

Smish-smash I was taking a bath!

The black spots near the tub were bothering me, so my friend told me how easy it should be to pull the tub as it was mostly likely steel and not that heavy. I did manage to snap off the drain pipe; thankfully it’s PVC. Here’s the nastiness underneath.

Black spooge.

Black spooge.

Dont look in the corner.

Don't look in the corner.

I’m going to pull the sink next. Might as well see what’s what. But unfortunately before I can begin repairs I need to fix the sagging garage where the dumb-ass “handyman” cut through a support beam to install a garage door opener.

Right through a support beam!

Right through a support beam!

Red

When Madison told me she wanted to paint her closet red, I thought what the heck!  It’s only a closet, no biggie.  (Actually she wanted coca-cola red, including the white stripes.)

Let me back up a bit.  Madison and Alex used to share a room.  This was perfect for me; I could use the other room as an office.  But as Alex grew older, her pleas for her own room became more frequent and harder to ignore.  Madison wanted to stay with her sister; she did not want to be all by herself!

I moved Madison’s bed and Susan’s old dresser into the office.  I was going to move my office items downstairs, but Madison insisted I leave the office where it was.  She didn’t want to be there alone and as I was often on the PC, she wouldn’t have to fall asleep alone. And of course the filing cabinet was awesome for her magnetic Bakugan toys.  That was fine (for now), but I still needed to clean out the closet; it was stuffed full of old technology, gift bags, unworn baby clothes, and assorted other detritus. Years ago I had added basic shelving to handle this accumulation; there was no need for a rod from which to hang clothes.

Two days and three large garbage bags later, the closet was pleasantly empty.  Some of the closet orphans still need a home, but for the most part it wasn’t to bad.  I did have to patch and sand a bit.  Susan brought home a gallon of red paint and Madison and I got crackin’. (As a side note, why do some areas look much darker then others when you go from an off-white base to red?) It took about four layers to cover the back wall of the closet properly, and all the time I was worried I might be creating some sort of doorway to hell (a la Amityville.)

Madison wanted to paint the entire closet red, but that would just have been to dark; I ended up painting the rest of the closet white. The shelving we bought was the inexpensive but oh-so-adjustable track system, very white.  This stuff is perfect for a closet, unless you feel the need to parade guests through your closet just to show your awesome taste in more expensive shelving.

Well after the shelves were in place and the closet began to fill with clothes and some storage boxes, I discovered something.  Instead of making the closet look weird, it actually looks good!  Damn good!  It’s not a solid wall of red, but a nice background color behind the white shelving and hanging clothes.  I am most pleased with the way it turned out!

WaveRunner

The two girls and I took a brief jaunt on Grapevine lake this weekend.  Jet skis rule!  The only problem: it was very choppy making for a rough and very wet ride.  We stopped often to wipe the water from our face.  At one point, I executed a sharp turn from a dead stop; not a good idea.  It’s a little freaky the first time you flip a jet ski; Madison was not a happy camper and thought she lost a shoe.  BTW, Crocks float.  Alex kept her head and nabbed the bobbing shoe.

But I have to admit; the jet ski did exactly what it was designed to do.  The cord on my wrist instantly cut the engine when we departed the vessel. It was very easy to flip the vehicle back over.  I boosted Madison back on, and Alex climbed on herself.  I remembered somebody telling me to make sure to mount from the back only; it was very stable as I clambered back on. After I wedged the wrist attachment back under the kill switch (thought I might need a screwdriver or something for a minute!) it started right up and we were on our way, drenched and exhilarated!

That was too loud!

Occasionally, my daughters’ Tai Kwon Do teacher shows the students how to break the grip of an opponent. But more importantly, she teaches them what to say when someone they don’t know grabs them. “Don’t just scream. Have you ever heard a kid scream in the mall? Those are just tantrums; no one pays much attention to those. Instead shout, I don’t know you! or You are not my mother! while breaking free of the assailants grip.”

One student wanted to demonstrate how loud he could scream. The kids around him hunched over and put their fingers in their ears in anticipation. Yeah, it was pretty loud, but the teacher made him do it again. Instead of a wordless scream, she asked him to shout as he was instructed.

Well he did, and again it was very loud. The kids around him were all angled away, as if to escape that awful noise. Well, after his last shout, the kid looked pretty nonplussed. “That was too loud!” he said, rubbing his ears. All the adults in the room burst into laughter, a kid cowed by his own shout.

Thanks for the laugh kid, I needed that!